Oh, earth, you’re too wonderful for anybody to realize you

“Sunday Morning” featured a piece about “Our Town” last week. It’s reportedly the most produced play in America, maybe because it calls for so little scenery, but more likely because it touches on that sinking feeling we all get sometimes that we are failing to “realize life while (we) live it,” that we aren’t appreciating who and what we have while we have them. Then the phone rings, the incoming email dings, and we forget again.
This positive image from a rare glass negative came from a friend’s family collection. It traveled over time to her without a chip, but also without a name or date or anything about the forgotten relatives who owned it. Studying the carving on the rocker, the little mat underneath, the dog’s round metal tag, the name plates by the screen door, the rooms of hidden objects behind, I think these were somebody’s “clocks ticking … and Mama’s sunflowers. And food and coffee. And new-ironed dresses and hot baths …” These were somebody’s ordinary and everyday, and maybe they appreciated them, and maybe they didn’t, and now they’re all gone, all save this photo.
February 6th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Excellent! I love this one and your writing is great. I saw that segment on Sunday Morning last week too. I liked when the producer of the play said (and I’m paraphrasing) that human being are not able to realize the specialness of everyday moments because if we did it would be overwhelming. We would be watching our lives as spectators rather than living. True, but it’s still good to be mindful.
February 6th, 2010 at 2:52 pm
Oh, and you made me cry with this one. Then again I cry at every Our Town production, including badly acted ones staged by middle schoolers.